
There are this emotional intelligence that partners need to
always strive for. The following are reasons why this is
1. Compromise becomes easy
There’ll always be differences between couples every now and
then because they are bound to have different outlooks and opinions on certain
matters.
Putting one’s self in a partner’s shoes in the case of a lover’s
fight helps in the attempt to understand their line of reasoning and even where
one still disagrees, reaching a compromise is made a lot easier due to this.
2. It makes the relationship easy
Partners who understand the importance of being considerate to
each other, and actually practice it often find that the relationship works
better, and things seems to happen more easily for them.
Partner
A is considerate enough to give partner B the necessary dose of attention,
care, love, loyalty and all other things needed to make a relationship thrive.
Partner B also has no reason not to reciprocate these good
deeds, and the cycle continues till the bond becomes stronger and stronger it
becomes unbreakable.

3. Makes you a better
person
In all likelihood, if you can practice a great deal of empathy
in your relationship, you’ll find yourself being like that with other people.
You no longer judge people rashly, and instead try to reason
with them and put yourself in their positions in a bid to understand why they
act the way they do.
In the long run, you discover that you’ll become a better judge
of character, easier to work with, a more compassionate person, a better
dispute resolver and also, you’ll avoid a lot of confrontation and outbursts.

4. Improves your
patience
When
you are considerate of your partner’s moods, it helps you stay calm in certain
annoying circumstances instead of flaring up in rage.
Instead of taking things the wrong way, you react calmly by
looking at things from your partner’s point of view and understand them better.
5. Helps you work on your flaws
Being sensitive enough to your partner’s needs helps you amend
and try to be a better person for them.
You often ask yourself: ‘if my woman did this to me, how would I
feel?’
Of course, you know you wouldn’t like it, so it moves you to
change your ways and not do to them what you wouldn’t have them do to you.
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